Most parenting books focus on changing a child s behaviour, but the truth is that children only change when their relationship with their parents changes. In Calm Parents, Happy Kids , Dr Laura Markham introduces an approach to parenting that eliminates threats, power struggles and manipulation, in favour of setting limits with empathy and communication. Bringing together the latest research in brain development with a focus on emotional awareness (for both parents and children), it will appeal to all parents who don t want to force their children into compliance and lose their temper, but want to keep calm and help their children want to behave.